There are several elements in a male’s personality which can make him a better and far attractive. Today we shall disclose those elements and the ways to improve your personality
Be Respectful
Showing someone respect is not the same as going along with whatever they say all the time and never disagreeing. Being respectful is to listen when someone else talks and doing your best to understand their point of view. You must genuinely care about someone else’s stance and talk to them as if their words are just as important to understand as yours are. People feel cared for and accepted when you listen to them. You may disagree with their opinions, but as long as you do so calmly and logically, people will admire you and be attracted to your sense of calm rationality
Be Uplifting
Everyone has been through a lot of hard times and we’re all very prone to pessimism and cynicism. With time, a positive attitude can chip away a sense of hopelessness. No one wants to be bitter. We all want to be brave enough and hopeful enough to give our all behind achieving a better future. So, smile and tell people that you are both going to get through this. Tell them to not worry and don’t be bitter to them. The only way they will learn to be positive and loving is if you show them positivity and love.
Be Stylish
Style goes beyond the latest designer collections and the most expensive brands for accessories. Style is self expression. It is meant to reflect your state of mind, your preferences and who you see yourself as. Decorate your home and belongings in your own style with accessories that are to your taste. A good cohesive style shows people that you know who you are and are in touch with your own interests. It’s always attractive when someone cares enough about their roles in society to care about how they present themselves.
Have a Plan
If you’ve asked someone on a date, try and have a plan as to where you’ll go and what you’ll do. Most people are quite clueless about what they want and what they’ll do, even just in the next few hours. When you’re out with someone, chances are they have no clue what they want to do. It is extremely reassuring for them to know that you know what you’re doing. People start to trust you more and see you as a strong, responsible figure when you make good plans.
You should also not be scared to improvise. Nothing ever really goes perfectly according to plan. Something disruptive is always bound to happen. Approach everything with bravery, and confidence will follow. Even the slightest movements and facial expressions can be attractive when they’re done with surety.
Be Considerate
Keep track of people and what they’re feeling and going through. Sometimes, it’s just not the right time for them to make good on that promise they made to see you next week. People are often in complicated situations or mentally down for some time. Consider this and make your plans around that. Don’t always expect them to have their lives together. Often, they don’t know what they’re saying or why they’re doing what they’re doing. Stick with them and give them what they need, whether that be wisdom, support, motivation, encouragement – whatever they require. Considerate people go the farthest, in their love lives and in every other walk of life.
